Are we have a choice tat don't fall in love with the person?

Haiz...today feeling not vry good..i oso donno why??? Yesterday i have read an e-mail, the title of the e-mail is "Are we have a choice tat don't fall in love with the person ? " The story is writting one guy love a girl vry much until can sacrifice everything for her include his life...the 1st tat the guy had an accident is coz of the joke of the girl then the guy lost the chance of playing basketball adi..the girl feel vry regret and stay with him 2 years but the girl not realy like him de..actualy the girl got a person which she like adi de..
So, got one day the girl withstand adi..she keep on scolding the guy and ask ' why u love me' ,the guy juz answer if i know u will get hurt coz i love u, i wan to choose i don't wan to love de..but i can't do it i realy like u vry much..and keep on saying sry to her... Actualy last time the guy no force the girl stay with him de..is the girl feel sry to the guy then voluntary stay with him and take care him de...
After she scold the guy , she cry and straight run out of the road,coz of her tears she can't see a car is going along to her.. suddenly the car 'hong!!!' ....the girl is ok ..but one more time the guy is bang by the car..tis is the last time tat the guy can sacrifice for her adi..before he died he say: sry tat i realy donno i will hurt u de..don't feel sry to me adi..go find ur freedom..i love u"...The girl juz keep on cry and cry vry loud..
Are we have a choice tat don't fall in love with the person??? I oso got a same question to ask?? May be realy cannot ba??
Today my cousin let me see a movie,call enternal summer, is a taiwan movie .. The story is saying tat got two guy , when they r small they donno each other de...one of them cal jonathon and one cal shane..jonathon is a monitor in class and shane is a naughty student in class..then teacher cal jonathon to friend with him coz to make shane to become a good student again like jonathon..so coz of tat jonathon become best friend with shane adi...until they grow older..like college student like tat, jonathon feel tat he fall in love with shane adi,he is guy...
Got another girl cal carrie, last time she fall in love with jonathon de..after tat she found tat jonathon love shane..but shane like carrie...Jonathon oso donno y he will love shane de..he feel so bad and down..he almost mad adi...why can't he love a girl like carrie...
Tis story oso is telling tat 'Are we have a choice tat don't fall in love with the person ' ..ARE WE???
I think if we wan to know the answer we need to ask god adi...I oso wanna choose !! Can i choose a person tat he like me and i like him too le!!!! CAN I???? haiz....